Follow Friday, Guest Post

Follow Friday! Misty Hinckley Phillip

follow friday

Sometimes God offers you a gift so precious, that you don’t understand its value until after you’ve unwrapped it and owned it for a while. This is the case with my sweet friend Misty. We met on Facebook a while back, and over time have developed a friendship that is centered on a mutual love of Jesus, encouragement, and prayer. It doesn’t matter the time of day, I know she will stop and pray, offer a word of encouragement, or pour her wisdom into life. Her heart and passion for God’s Word and His People inspire me more than I have words to describe.

Friend, she is someone to follow! Subscribe to her website here: Misty Philip, By His Grace

Misty Phillip is a Christian author, blogger, speaker, and podcaster who encourages women to live with vulnerability and passion for seeking Jesus, studying His word, and growing in grace at

Misty is the host of the By His Grace Podcast: Deep Wounds, Deep Grace – Transformative Stories of God’s Grace

Join host Misty Phillip and guests as they share openly about challenges they face, and how God’s amazing transformative grace, hope, and love changes everything.

By His Grace Podcast is for everyone who wants to know they are not alone in facing adversity. To know they are made to thrive and God’s grace is enough.


Word of the Year

by Misty Phillip

After a hectic holiday season, I decided to be kind to myself and ease into the New Year. I wanted to linger in the remaining days of year, but I had no choice. the new year came in with a roar!

Through prayer and thoughtful meditation with the Lord, one word has come up over and over, and I believe it is my one word for 2019. Presence not to be confused with presents, although it can be a gift.

My first encounter with the word presence came as I was reading through the book of Jonah. Jonah is more than just a story of a man and a big fish. Jonah is the story of a man with a calling on his life who tries to run away from his destiny and hide from God.

Now the word of the Lord came to Jonah the son of Amittai, saying, “Arise, go to Nineveh, that great city, and call out against it, for their evil has come up before me.” But Jonah rose to flee to Tarshish from the presence of the Lord. – Jonah 1:1-3 ESV

Jonah gets a word from God. God doesn’t need Jonah to fulfill his plan, but the Lord graciously chooses to use Jonah to fulfill his divine purposes. How cool is that? Jonah knows exactly what his calling is and why he is here on this earth! And what does Jonah do? He runs the other way! He tries to flee the very presence of the Lord.

Does he think there is a place he can go where the Lord can’t find him? Maybe a more poignant question would be… do we think we can run and hide from God?

Psalm 139:8 is clear, If I ascend to heaven, you are there! If I make my bed in Sheol, you are there!

Hiding from God is a futile exercise, HE is intimately acquainted with us. He sees our heart and knows our sin. We can’t run and we can’t hide! Be strong and courageous. Do not fear or be in dread of them, for it is the LORD your God who goes with you. He will not leave you or forsake you. – Deuteronomy 31:6 ESV

God is with us. Our Heavenly Father lavishly loves us and is ever present in our lives. I don’t ever want to take that for granted. Instead, I want to fully embrace my calling but in order to do that first. I have to spend time with the Lord in order to get a word from the Lord.


Before I can pour out my cup to anyone, my husband, my children, my neighbors, friends or blog readers my cup must be filled first by the only one who can fulfill the deepest longings within my soul, so that I have something to share with others. This requires me to linger in the presence of the most Holy and be filled.

Over and over the word, presence kept coming up. And questions filled my mind. How often am I distracted during my quiet time? When I am with others am I fully present, or am I thinking about something else? Where am I in this present moment? Am I fully here? Am I distracted by the device in my hand, or am I present with the ones I love?

The Antonym of Presence

Absence is the opposite of presence. If I am praying and my mind wonders I am absent. If I am having dinner with my family and we are all mindlessly scrolling on our phones than I am absent. If I am talking with a friend, but thinking about my to-do list, then I am most certainly absent!

I am choosing to spend more time in the presence of Jesus in 2019! Sometimes in order to be more present, we must be careful to choose our absence, as I was so gently reminded today by Emily P Freeman on her podcast The Next Right Thing. I may have to let go of good things, in order to have time for the best things.

My desire for this year is to be aware of my presence and to live intentionally and with purpose. Choosing to linger long in the Word of God focusing my prayers and meditations. Being fully present wherever I am, whether it is in my quiet time, with my family or a friend.

What is your prayer for the New Year? My hope for the new year is that my Presence will bring me to new victorious heights with the Lord in 2019.

4 thoughts on “Follow Friday! Misty Hinckley Phillip”

  1. Maybe your words are various layers of something God wants to teach you this year. I can’t wait to hear how he works it out through the year.

  2. Misty, so glad to meet you here at Follow Friday. I love the word PRESENCE and it is indeed a present from God. May you deepen your understanding of His unfailing love this year.
    I’m still praying about my word…I received three. DELIGHT, SEE/PERCEIVE, and COURAGE. I think they may be related.

Leave a Reply